I shared this story on Instagram for Father’s Day this year. Having the best partner by your side in marriage and parenthood is such a blessing. And this was one of those moments where I knew, just knew, I had the best partner…
The Best Partner
A few weeks ago, Myles was getting a bit lippy (as 5 year-olds do) with me, mostly in fun. But, it was bedtime and we were allll ready to be tucked in and have some quiet time.
Anyway, Eric piped up before I really had a chance to decide how to handle Mr. Lippy. And he said something that was really profound to me. He said, “Myles, nobody talks to my wife like that.”
He was calm, cool, and collected (as he always is with the kids), but the point was made. I remained silent and let the moment pass. Let’s be honest, it was way too late in the day for me to really give two shits about what was said to me. Haha!
But, I got to thinking about Eric’s words. He could have said so many other things. He could’ve said, “Myles, don’t talk to your Mom like that.” As if leaving it open for interpretation that he, or others, could speak to me that way.
Wow.
Instead, he told our oldest son, “…nobody talks to my wife like that.”
In that moment, I felt so protected, safe, and secure. Secure in my marriage, my self-worth, and my love for the father of our babies. I felt so valued. So important. So loved.
What a gift
And what a gift for our children. I hope that as the years pass, they’ll see what it means to be a true partner, a true friend. I hope they see the value of an equal marriage, where both spouses are valued and cared for deeply by one another.
I hope our children understand how important it is to make their loved ones feel protected, safe, and secure. How important it is to treat their spouses with respect and value their worth on this earth.
A Father’s Day to Remember
And on this Father’s Day, I hope Eric feels all of these things, too. Sweets, I hope you know how loved, protected, and valued you are in our family. You are our rock, our steady, and a true gift to each of us. Happy Father’s Day! We love you so much!
Cheers to all of the fathers out there (including my own!), who are showing up and showing the next generation of fathers and spouses how to be an equal, respectful, and loving partner. The Best Partner. You’re doing great!
And if you’re reading this, and have yet to find a partner for yourself, save this and ask yourself if you feel these feelings throughout your relationships. I hope you land a great one soon!
To the Chaos!
MG
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